Perfection - With You , Without You !

Perfection can be killer – and its persuasion too !

The cold-blooded , smooth , unconvincing , unknowing and nescience  killing kind !

Simplest Truth of Life - Nobody is Perfect , Nothing is Perfect – never was , never would be. Halting to look for perfection in people , things , places and life can take the toll out and bless us with the surmounting peace of mind.

Why do we need  a Perfect thing , a perfect partner or a perfect life when everything is created by GOD the way it should be –and that’s Perfect that way !

Bob Marley said - "Who are you to judge the life I live? I know I'm not perfect and I don't live to be. But, before you start pointing fingers, make sure your hands are clean."

          

Very Rightly so – when we too are Imperfect ( yes no matter however  tumultuous it is to digest) – we have No Right to pinpoint the lack of perfection. It needs the Open-eyed Soulful Glance and leaving the judgemental glasses behind !

The small pleasures of life , the Gratitude for the Gifted , the Count of Blessings gets all enveloped .

When it’s a pinching pin , its just not worth - I have packed , locked and cast off the “Perfect” from my life – for I don’t need it , I don’t believe in it and and I don’t give a Damn about it !

Years, months, days, minutes, seconds and encompassing numerous Moments been wasted. It’s just a Mirage behooving the glares – getting rid of it – the sooner, the better!

There is small tiny difference between – Excellence and Perfection – while the former supercharge the spirit, the latter pounds on it ! Striving for the excellence will get us higher but when you strive for something non-existing ( read Perfection)  , you get no-where !

Life feels lighter , smoother and definitely Happier like never before in the absence of it – I breathe well ,  see well ,  taste well , feel well – that’s the Perfect !

That’s all the definition – I got and that’s all I need.

Of Pain , Life and Celebration

Not once , Not twice , its Innumerable times – I have heard it –

“We never Know How strong we are until Being Strong is the only option we are left with !”

Human Beings are one of the most Incredible and Complex creations of GOD. No matter however much we strive and unfold about ourselves , there still remains power and surprise stories within us – Untouched and Un-used. And the feeling - Its confusing , Relaxing , Pleasantly Soothing and Amazingly scary ( sometimes) !

The stamina to deal with Pain comes Naturally and No Pain leaves us the way we used to be. Perception and Faith – are the two utmost things that does change with Pain.

Everytime a pain , a challenge start spinning your head , you come to know of your strengths and tenacity – you never imagined to possess !

Physical and Emotional Pain – one can outrun the other at times and vehemently .

The flavour varies with both – but still the Same at the same time – Relentlessly Bitter and Pungent !

You got to deal with both of them – If you not get daunted by em’ , then Bravo!

You will see a New AVATAR of yourself – a Columbus-like feeling when you know of your dormant and lull mental barons !

Its not the Ideal pathway to ply on – but having tramped down , You don’t remain the Same !

That’s the Best thing About it …

Everytime I get them ( though I don’t Like them) , I make sure , I don’t get down without a Fight !

You gotta feel it , deal it , nail it and kill it – And Capable you are for the same beyond the contemplative !

So Lets Celebrate Life , Celebrate Pain and Make sure the ends are not Lost and everything Plugged in !

Start - Restart

Being Lazy is Fun , magically effortless and We all are So good at  - its just comes Naturally !

We start and stop and then restart and Stop and then Start again to Stop again

- the cycle keeps buzzing around ! For its much easier to start but painstakingly difficult to keep up the Tempo to keep humming. Its Easy to Start but difficult to Keep up the steam flowing !

Its not really surprising that – we  Quit  smoking ( Literally at least) every month , on every birthday or on every New Year day – for when it comes to the Quitting deal , very apparently , it’s a One-day affair or for some - the determined ones , some days affair !

Enrol in Gym and hit it every days punctually , for the starting week and the tempo keeps popping out gradually out of the habitual bag as days pass by.

The same thing goes in Love –  To fall in for Somebody is easy , to preserve the Feeling and the Promises till the Last breathe is what makes it all count and that’s  when the strides  gets trampled often for many.

A better example – waking up in the morning –  there cant be a more vivid example than myself – I forgot the count of my Pledge to myself to wake up early every day . And believe me , out of all my days on Mother earth so far , there been few ,very few when I have lived upto the pledge .

When I took my bike , I told myself not to break any Traffic signal ever in my life and the Best thing – Just few days after that , I was trying to bite  my tongue when I got the Letter from Bangalore Traffic Police for Signal breaking Fine .

It is said –“ First we make the Habit and then the Habit  makes us”

I don’t know about others for me at least its been just the other way round – The Habit has already Made Me and it is so much so recondite and sturdy that  rising to  Another Habit looks  staggeringly  monumental now. A finished Business revitalizes the Spirit and an Unfinished one drains peace out !

Come face to face on the Sustaining  Business–  The Hardship shoots up to retain the things said , keep up the Promises and to continue the good work.

( Personally whenever I attain any small pinch of such a feat – I indulge myself to self-treat and Gosh !

I divert again ..)

But the Best thing about the whole process is to flexing the effort muscles  - Start , Stop/Pause , Restart and the wheel keeps plying ……

Optimistically Speaking – We haven’t Given Up or Given In – Well that’s  just to ready myself to  Indulge in Another Feat of  a Glass of Chilled Beer !

LOL !

We All are , by default, Prone to Being Lazy – Accept it – it  just takes one thing or another to get this fact Highlighted  !