Cycle the Circle !

“A stitch in Time saves Nine !”

We All need the inevitable stitch after a Check-up , Make-up , Catch-up or the bloody Break-up !

Sometimes it gonna hurt or pain or thrill ( if you are Lucky :-) ) but that’s all part of the Game – If you don’t do it ,  You have No idea of the heinous price , it gonna cost at the end.

If you are ever letting anyone rise on your self-esteem , then Congratulations my friend – You have won a ticket to Low-life – pathetic , miserable and upside down !

Nobody can ride your back until you are bent !

The thin line which holds the borderline between helping , being used or being taken for granted  so easily goes unperceived , that we don’t even make out things happening under our very nose.

If you ever go through such a phase – Just Pull over !

Re-check and draw the Circle of Trust to pinpoint the access that needs to be given , to whom and till what extent. 

Make sure nobody gets a share of Radius More than what they truly deserve.

Life’s just a Circle – what goes round , comes round – So Draw your own Diameter and make the Circle custom-made  !


I am Drawing My Circle Already . Are You Too ???

To Society - With Love !

Ek Aadat si hain

To kabhi Jaroorat si hain

Majboori toh kabhi

Kamjori bhi hain

Acchai humari

Taqat na banee

Awaaz humari Bejubaan hi sahin

Aur Chahaat apni

Teri nazar mein kam hi sahin

Sach humse Tu bulvaye

Aur Phir use sunn bhi na payein

Vaade humse Tune karvayein

Par khud kabhi na nibhaye.

Har kadam humari

Galat  hi tujhe laage

Teri Rivaazein , teri  Niyam

Ab unse na bandhenge hum

Azaad kiya humne khudko

Chahein ab jitni koshish  karle

Na todd ab yeh payenge hume

Aisi Samaj se hum bahar ho nikle

Ab koi Fikr nahin

Aur koi Darr bhi Nahin

Ab woh karein jo Apna Dil Kahein

Chahein Jo Anjaam ho

K Ab koi Parwaah hi nahin

Rokk sake toh Rokk k dikha

Inn kadmo ko Tokk k dikha

Abhi hume janaa tune hain hi kahan

Maidan mein utar jao jara

Ladai humari dekha hi kahan !!!

It’s a Guy thing

It is said  - All Guys are the same – So True  ! Thought so ? ?

Unfortunately – until and unless you are a Guy , the subtle differences would never mark or mar your eyes – so the point is they are not !

Here is a Glimpse of something from another Guy’s angle -

The Ladies Man - Quintessential , articulate , confident & Romantic – A Perfect Gentleman ! 
They respect ladies , Ladies respect them and they respect that . Always surrounded by the Opposite Sex -  Girls enjoy their company , their talk and the way they would appreciate you. He will bring you Flowers , chocolates and take you to a candle-light dinner. They are the Mass with the Class – suave , sober Fizzing and irresistible . You will be greeted , treated and  smitten. Not to wonder , they are get the Girl and a Superb life , well almost always !  
Perfection is just next to em'.

If You are a Girl - You will Simply Like them , praise them or probably Love them !

The Frustu  – Bet – you might somewhere, somehow have beheld this species – they are omnipresent – at the bus stop , near the college gate , in the Shopping Mall  and the very obvious Movie  Theater . Pick A pretty Lass and you will see a Beeline after, loitering or the smuggling eyes, roving around. Observe closely – you will make out what I am talking about being Frustated. 
They might or mightn't have a Girl in their life - if they do they are not Happy still and if they don't , then Desperate to get One. 

Oh Yes - Don't get excited - They could possibly turn out as the ones – your Mom warned you about !

The I-Don’t-Care Blokes – He is the Carefree bird - a Free Spirit without or with the Class & the Style.  But what they do have in common is oodles of plain , massive kick-A** Attitude - I don’t care attitude . They are the ones - Intelligent , Smart , Funny , Rebellious , Artistic & with A Golden Heart .He  goes where the wind takes him -- and the wind usually takes him on some kind of flakey adventure. He might ride a motorcycle at the weirdest hour  or might skip work to take her on a last-minute Road trip. He Might make you Pleasantly Surprised at times - unplanned & unimagined ! If a Surprise Poem for you is smsed at 3A.M - Be OK with that. 

Nevertheless if they don’t have a Girl – they are Least fickled about it. 
He is not Bad but He is not Good either !

Love them , Hate them or Ignore them – But You just can’t bother them !

So Girls Go Ahead - choose and pick up your Type – Probably One of them is Just Perfectly Made for you !

P.S. -  These are Just the Author's view-point so definitely not non-bushelling. 

3000 sq Feet Reverie

Prolific – the term seconds the opulent Human crave like no one does ! Juggling both the terms sounds a bit of sarcastic though but I am OK with that !

For More you have , more you want ; More you want , more you crave !

Yup ! That’s how we are - Just as simple as that.

Gone are the days when - Roti , Kapda aur Makaan used to be the toast of life – it’s Sandwitch( or a Burger) , Branded wears and Villas now just in the same order , only a bit refined probably .

However ,It’s definitely the Makaan that might spin a wheel in your mind when we speak in monetary terms but what we need – we just need ! Lets be more formal and bit classy to match with the Jet-age – it’s Flat or a Villa ( if you are filthy rich , of course!) .

Ever since , we stepped onto the Corporate jungle to make both ends meet , the money has just blew little more sophisticated air into the desires. Starting with a 2-wheeler and moving on to 4  , the next target is the unavoidable and an edifice reach – a House !

The Middle class sophomore just eats and sleeps now singing for the proverbial possession to keep his head under a roof – a solid one.

1, 2 , 3 BHKs – doesn’t they sound so familiar ? I am pretty sure they do.

The only trembling part in the whole picturesque frame is the Sky-rocketing prices.

The ever surmounting sky-high prices have no lessened the Indian Middle Class’s   resolution to sleep under a beautiful roof with plenty of rooms to ply on. Drilling a hole in the pocket might sound scary but then who cares ? We are talking about one of the basic Human needs and fetching it - is nowhere near a Sin.

But then we are definitely working on it .

We know how to get things straight and done and Be Happy , for sure !

Tu, Tum aur Aap

When You Juggle the Letters and make them Words , You hold all the Relationships , in surplus, onto them !

Prominently enough , we are conditioned to , from childhood of  keeping people in high esteem and appropriate with Pronouns – Grammatical in literal sense but they hold so much of sense from the closeness to effortlessness in our feelings !

Aap , Tum and Tu –  these Relation-bearers  have so profoundly been deep-rooted , that sometimes we are noticeably effortless while using them . Possibly it shows the direct thread of love , care , respect and certain other surreal human sensitivities that impact uttering them.

Sometimes I used to ponder over the whereabouts - why , when , how , where’s of these simple but powerful relationship holders and , more often than not ,been left in lurch , clueless !

The proximity that “Tu” brings , is at par with “Aap” sometimes . And so as “Tum” . Whereas, at times they bring those inexplicable gigantic differences .The proverbial discrimination had always been Un-Surmountable  for me. There are people whom you refer as Aap , Tu or Tum and quite baffling at times why we do so for we are not conditioned to talk so – it’s just a fact that we just do – and Interestingly it fetches us a comfort !

Life is queer and a nonplus-platter sometimes where  the options leave us bewildered and eye-popping ! I have never understood why so but ……

P.S. – I have met people who are so fortunate to be crystal clear about such aspects though !

Bring It On

O’ Pain

You don’t Hurt Me Anymore

I have Grown up and Moved On

You Look Silly Now

For You are Still the Same !

O’ Pain

You don’t Hurt Me Anymore

I have Learned To Live

Love Life and Myself

I Pity You

For You mean Nothing Now !

O’ Pain

You Don’t Hurt Me Anymore

I Like The way You Try

And You Try Harder

And I Just Laugh It Away !

O’ Pain

You Don’t Hurt Me anymore

It’s Not The Yesterday’s Kid

For What You Face Today

Is A Soul which got Burnt &

Then Started  Blazing

Brave & With No Fear !

O’ Pain

You Don’t Hurt Me Anymore

Ruthless and Merciless  - Played Against All

Innumerably Fought to Survive and

Survived to Fight

And Still Keeping the Breathing on !

O’ Pain

You don’t Hurt Me Anymore

Let’s Take the Head-On

I Promise You Something

You Would Go Home Today

With Pain You Have Never Faced Before !

O’ Pain

Just Stop Trying

For You Don’t Hurt Me Anymore !  

Curtain Down

The Show’s Over Today

Go Home now

Start Life Anew

Grab thy Right

And Stay Happy

The Show’s Over Today

Lessons Galore

Make Ends Meet

Lo And Behold

Things Did Change

The Show’s Over Today

Good Things , Bad Things Roll Over

The Street Turns The Bend

To A Mend

And With Bright Light At the End

The Show’s Over Today

Did We understood

Like As they Say

All That Happens

Is Just Only For the Good !

Second Last

Ek chehra tera Chupa Hua

Aanchal se Dhaka Hua

Aankhen jaise kuch kehti hain

Par Samajh usse kyun na payein

Ek Yeh Naadan Dil Hain

Aakhir aisi kya woh baat hain

Jubaan takk jo hain aati nahin

Bas aansra liye ruki hain

Ki kab durr ho woh Faansle

Aankho se Hotho takk jo beechi hain

Kaise Ehsaas Dilaaye Unko

Ki Ek Woh hain

Aur Woh hi Toh Hain

Baaki sab se toh Hume koi Vaasta hi nahin 

Par Jaane iss Baat pe unko kyun aata Yekin nahin

Unki Hansi bhi jo itni pyaari hain

Ab to Sharmaane bhi woh humse lagi hain

Hum toh aaj bhi Ummid mein Jeete hain

Ki Pyaar Unko bhi hain

Jo Pyaar Humko bhi hain !!!

Tum

Khusiyon ki Jo Shaugat laaye Woh Tum Ho

Zindagi mein Jo ujala Laaye Woh Tum Ho

Dhup se jo Roshini aaye Woh Tum Ho

Rango ki Jo Bahaar dhaaye Woh Tum Ho

Bus Tum Ho

Har Ek Lamha Jo beet jaaye Woh Tum Ho

Nadiyo mein jo Dhar laaye Woh Tum Ho

Asha Ki Jo ek Kiran pohushaye Woh Tum Ho

Aasma mein udta hua jo pankh hain Woh Tum Ho

Bus Tum Ho

Hawao Ki Jo Sharsharahat hain Woh Tum ho

Pehle Baarish ki jo Mehek Hain Woh Tum Ho

Meetti Ki Jo Khusboo Hain Woh Tum Ho

Jeene Ki Jo Chah hain Woh Tum Ho

Bus Tum Ho

Ab Bus Yehi Lagta hain

Ki Tum Ho

Kyunki har ek Jarre mein Ek Tum Ho

Bus Tum Ho

Bus Tum Ho 

Haan

Sirf Tum Ho  !!!

Kyun ?

Dil Tu Kyun Yeh Karta Hain

Har Pal Kuch Talaasha Karta Hain

Bus Lamho Ko Samente Chalta Hain

Aur Hansi – Aansu Ki Daur Lataa Hain

Dil Tu Kyun Yeh Karta Hain

Kuch Pal Hume bhi Toh Jeene de

Yaado ki Barsaato mein Bheegane De

Jaadu sa ehsaas pane de

Aur Aasma  mein aise hi Udne de

Dil Tu Kyun Yeh Karta Hain

Pyaar Karke Dard Hume deta hain

Dil Tu Kyun Yeh Karta Hain

Toote Baar Baar aur phir bhi Unki Raah mein Chal padta hain

Shot At Sight

It is said – Beauty is the correct  Palatable food to the mind of a Man !

Most Rightly or if so till what extent ? Well I am not scribbling here to justify or nullify this aspect !

But Love at First Sight – is something all Men are fabricated to fall in – Quite Frequently – well most of them. And this First Sight happens every time , man catch a PYT ( Pretty Young Thing).

So what’s the difference –  Girls today are probably far more Practical than Guys in the traditional Falling cases – they do have certain parameters as a Threshold pole-vault. But Men , most of them – even today dots on just – Looks !.

If You are Pretty or Beautiful or Cute or at least have a Sweet smile – You are In !

( Personally I did never understand  - what’s the difference between being Pretty , Beautiful or Cute – I just manage to survive only on their Literal sense ).

And Girls ! They are smart enough to know ( or acknowledge ? )  – we do function this way !

At least – enthrones them( Girls) with Better Control ( Am Being deliberately Sarcastic here ! )

( Couple of recent Bollywood flicks - Dil Toh Baccha Hain Ji , Pyaar Ka Paanchnaama etc - are milking money on such themes.)

However there is no point of Right or Wrong – as things are streamlined - most probably would continue so. To quote in a typical Bollywood way -

Man lafanga bada
Apne mann ki kare
Hoo yun toh mera hi hai
Mujhse bhi na dare
Woh bheege bheege khayalon mein dooba rahe
Main sambhal ja kahun fisalta rahe
Ishq mehnga pade
Phir bhi sauda kare……….

Real on the Reel Platter !

Reality Shows – You can not get enough of them of late ! Seriously !

Just yesterday, while running my fingers on the TV remote , the one thing that irrevocably caught my mind – is the volume of Reality shows ! From the boardroom to the courtroom and from the street to the bedroom – it’s just in-front of you –  at the push of a button !

You can enjoy husband-wife fights , Cat-fights , bitching , back biting, locked-love , love trapping , couple exchanges , Date traps and all the exciting (or sometimes forbidden) things in the world -  you can think of right on your daily real-reel menu ! We always wanted the Nuts , crazy and out-of-the-box and somewhat secret  items on the plate !

So here it is - the show has just grown Enormous , Spooky , Flashy and definitely Filthy !

The Camera is being welcomed on the Red carpet to the once-so-called privacy zone and left no stone unturned to turn it Bigger and Better in the competition.

Mute-point – Grab some quick money , Ride on the Limelight drive and Name with the fame !

Celebrity is another common word now – for we all are stars and celebrities now standing with our head erect of out of the TV screen !

The Hungrier you get , the more professionally instrumental you turn out  and so are the sky-rocketing TRPs on a geometric progression.

And No happy faces are complaining !

But How far is too far ?

Or are we so far that now we don’t even bother how far we are to get near !