Of Head , Heart and things !

Those moments of madness spark - dwelling on the Ubiquitous - Heart & Head battle !

Felt  – small extent , big extent or enormously big ones at times .  

The proverbial  Head v/s Heart battle have been Apple of the eye for debaters . Well I’m not to debate here on that nor do I possess the textual gamut of words for the same.

However I do noticed the irony which Life throws at times making you Think twice , thrice or more on things  you have always took as your capability ground !

How do we tilt our eyes over decisions – is it the Head or the Heart - which outweighs the other ?

For sure there are people who open their Heart out on decisions and so are people judgmental with the eye-glasses of Head. Perhaps we are more attached  or prone to one than the other. Then there are the Lucky bunch of people who are perfectly at balance with the Head & Heart !

Personally I have been  struggling with the Judicial balance and of course been Unsuccessful !  This draws a very strict line for my way of thinking  persuading me at one-side .The fact is everytime , I have budged and inch from my Traditional way , I have had a Bullet in my skull . When you live your ideology which seems to have worked for you over time , it is really foolish to pick up the other way round and make it forcefully work !

If your Head has ruled , let it rule and if your Heart has ruled , let it rule. Exception – only when you have tried for the harmony of Head & Heart. Fortunately if you happen to bring forth the Harmony , it can be a Life changing Twilight – not many attain the same though .

As we grow over the years , we build a bridge sustaining the flamboyant peace and equilibrium and a paved way of materializing over and over.  It takes innumerous days , months and years for drawing the Uniformity . And when you suddenly shake that up , you dodge on a rocky slide!

Guess what – you are upside-down now. Freeing things is good but not at the cost of changing things – and obviously not at the way you have preferred – Head or Heart -  whatever so far . There is a small voice within , whispering  on way in and way out.

There are certain things , circumstances &  people - out of reach and they better be ! It’s easy to pour your heart out (averse to Head) at the beginning – but what makes it worthwhile cum  standstill in the long run , is how you stand to your ground in the rainy & troublesome days or just left in the lurch.

For Words , Mouth-Claims and Actions often don’t go hand-in-hand . They tend to betray each other in one way or the other in the course of time. If you were unaware of it , Life throws challenges and milestones to pave the way .

This brings life - wide awake and clear – straight on the face  . You are lucky if you can keep the soul high & un-burnt  at the end . After all , its Survival of the Fittest – If you sailed through , you rock and if you din’t , then my brother , you are doomed !

As such , I prefer sticking to my age-old Doctrines – For they keep me Balanced and Grounded. And although I might prefer one over the other ( Head  & Heart) – it somehow have been justifying my existence and Scrupulously attunes the Chord of Harmony .

Something tells me , It’s the Head !

 Touché !